Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Hi-Jacked And In The Name Of Love

So... I know this is "The Life Of A Soon To Be Bride" blog... but... the other side of this relationship is hijacking it... just for a day :).

In case you are wondering... This is Corey... the future husband of the beautiful Callie McCarty. You will be able to tell by my overuse of "..." at the end of my sentences. I have gotten into a bad habit of using "..." at work to help anchors know when it is the end of a sentence because a regular "." is hard to see in the prompter... So I stretch them out a little bit...

As you can tell, I am every as bit as random as Callie and that is just one of the reasons we are perfect for each other. Just the other day I was thinking about every thing we do have in common. When we tell a joke, we think it is the funniest joke ever... and honestly we don't need you to laugh... because it's just THAT funny to us. We watch the same shows and have the same opinions on all the important stuff... (like whether or not dessert should be eaten first, breakfast is for the birds and lunch is really the most important meal of the day, and we both believe why should I fill up my gas tank now if I can go back to work and home on fumes?) All the stuff that unusual people fall in love over, right? The reason I am writing is because I am the first to admit that even though we have a lot in common... we also have plenty (and I mean PLENTY) we don't agree on. Perfect example, I eat one thing at a time... usually in a clockwise motion around my plate. I am OCD like that. This drives my poor fiance crazy (and I mean CRAZY). Every time we eat with her family, or mine, she must point it out. The reason I am telling you this is because so many people don't realize that with true love... things your significant other do will annoy you. Yet, that is part of it. For a long time I have been an Anti-love movie guy. Mostly because I think it gives younger or oblivious people the wrong idea about love. The Notebook, for example, that is fairytale love. Nobody in love is like that. It is nice to think about every once in awhile... or say, "Hey, I wish my loved one would build me a house by his bare hands"... but it never is like that.

I know, probably on a daily basis, I aggravate Callie to the point she wants to ring my neck. However, at the end of the day when she puts her head on the pillow... she loves me. It is quite unexplainable and I even wonder why she does some times... but she does. And THAT is true love. No, she is never going to build me a house with her bare hands... but I don't want her to. I just want to know when she wakes up I am the first thing she thinks of... and when she lays down... I am the last thing she thinks of.

I am so proud of my fiance. She is so determined, works so hard, and take serious, serious pride in what she does. And if you think you are going to push Callie around, you have another thing coming. Every time I look at her I am enveloped with an overwhelming sense of pride and love. I can not wait to marry her... Behind being saved, it will be the biggest accomplishment of my life. Out of the millions of women on Earth, I found "The One" in a small room in a building called "Warf-Pickel". Where we were "learning" about radio waves and why it is so important to remember that to the east of the Mississippi River all radio stations start with a "W". While, to the west of the great Mississippi, all radio stations starts with a "K". (Look it up, not pulling your leg)

I find myself talking about her a lot.(and I mean A LOT). To random people (bank tellers, random people that call to work, and I even talked about her to a guy walking down the street)... and that is why I know we are meant to be. So, if you are out there and you are having problems with your significant other and you don't do these things or you are chasing fairytale love... stop. Because you will never chase down love, it is going to come at you when you least expect it.

So, I believe I'll wrap this blog up. By the way, one more story about Callie and myself.

One day I was working with Callie at Buc Sports. She got there early and I was trying to figure out a cable situation with our boss... he asked me to run into the trailer and check on the connection. When I walked in I seen Callie, and boy oh boy, she was beautiful. So beautiful I just stopped and stared. From that moment on, every time I see her I get that same feeling. I don't care if she has no make up on, just got out of the pool, or is so sick she can hardly move... that same feeling hits me. (I just checked and yes I got the feeling again... but she kept yelling WHAT!!! at me... stupid tv show...) Ok, so this wraps up my pointless random blog about my fiance. Peace out cub scouts, see ya later alligators, after while crocodiles... I am out like a light.


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