Any-who...
Man, these months are flying by fast, and I'm super excited and oh so nervous. There's still so much to be done.
In a couple weeks I'm meeting with my florist and caterer, to figure out those two things. We ordered 'Save the Dates' two days ago and should be sending those out in a week or so. There's still so much to do.
I've heard a lot of people say that registering is one of the best parts of wedding planning, but honestly that stresses me out too. Well, except for the target experience. However, we went to Bed Bath & Beyond the other day (the place Corey insisted he didn't really need any lotions), and let me tell ya, we aren't even done there and we spent 3 hours inside that store. Goodness!!! They also don't let you go off by yourself, and so we had a lady walk with us. Pros: She was super nice and she was super helpful. Cons: By the time we got half way through, I'm pretty sure SHE wanted to marry Corey (granted she was like in her 50's), and every time I had a question she talked for like 30 minutes explaining herself.
Here is a list of thoughts that run through my mind when registering:
- One place setting (two plates, a bowl, and a tea cup) are extremely over priced.
- Who the heck is going to buy us 10 of those...(NO ONE) The lady suggested 12 and I'm like dude, here's the deal, unless we have a football party, I don't know of 12 people that would be coming over to eat on the 'casual' china.
- Did you add gold flakes to this comforter? Because if the answers no, than I don't know who would pay this price. I'm familiar with college bedding, cheap and comfy!
- Speaking of cheap and comfy, we passed the jersey sheets and I was like, "yeah these are my favorite!" The lady laughed at me and kept walking...
- How many different pillows do they make. "Oh you need shame pillows and decorate pillows, and of course the regular kind, oh and we also have these covers for your pillows to keep the dirt out." uhhhh.....
- Oh then there's the wall of Utensils. I'm going to need a whole closest to fit all of them in. How many wooden spoons does one need to have? Why would I need a tool that plucks the top part of a strawberry off?
- "Well, it's best if you don't put these in the dishwasher!" Well, darn, take that off the list!
I'm not saying that I don't want nice items, I really do!! I'm just not use to this process. I'm not use to looking at cake pans, a knife set, a nice set of pots and pans, 'casual' china, a whole wall of utensils, a salad spinner, a really beautiful comforter and the other numerous items we registered for and thinking, "ya know one day I'm going to really need/enjoy this!" And we did have fun, but it's just so over whelming. It's scary to think that in 6 months, I'm getting married, I'm going to be a wife, I'm going to have to step up my game and cook wonderful meals and actually make the bed. :)
I told the lady in Bed Bath & Beyond. "I'm not very patient, Corey's the one who is calm!" And I'm so glad that God blessed me with a man like him. He calms my nerves, he helps me have fun with these nerve racking activities, and he helps me understand that life is what you make it. (Corny? yeah, sure)
I don't know what I'd do without him. I'm also pretty stoked, because in 6 months, I'll marry the man of my dreams. That beautiful blue eyed boy! And that helps calm my nerves (well sometimes)
It'll all be worth it, when September rolls around!!
"Find rest, oh my soul, in God alone. My hope comes from him!" Psalms 62:5
Much Love,
Callie Marie.